Choosing An Ideal Partner

This life is nothing short of beautiful and exciting as we experience new relationships, adventures and an array of lessons that are karmically served. With each step forward we must be conscious of our ego as we observe the outcome from the choices we make.

My recent heartbreak has allowed me to be gifted with ways to continue to spiritually expand and grow. Also, it has brought about a certain sense of understanding of the Self that has made me see that I am worthy of unconditional love - a love that I have been blessed to experience with the Divine.

I am worthy of unconditional love.

I took it upon myself to create a list of what it is that I need in a partner. Each characteristic was throughly thought through as I now ask the Universe to provide me with such a partner. I am sharing this with you because the transparency I provide allows you to hold me accountable, as well as see that I too am on a journey just like you, my brothers and sisters.

Here is my Ideal Partner list:









Financially secure

Willingness to grow






An equal


Physically fit

Emotionally supportive







Morally sound


I have been greatly guided by the loving friendships that I keep to see that those that surround me possess the qualities to which I am drawn. Furthermore, those qualities that I am now openly showing that draw me to another are also well within the Self. I am the most important love of my life. I am my own best friend. I am my ideal partner.

I am the most important love of my life.

I am my own best friend.

I am my ideal partner.

We must patiently stand strong and know that by voicing what it is that we need is the first step towards receiving what the Divine can provide. No longer will I settle or make excuses for another who is unwilling to walk the sacred path with me.

I ask that we each take the time to be brutally honest with the Self and call in what it is that we need so that our light may shine brighter. I am with you all and I am thankful for your guidance that has brought me to this awakening.

Always grateful,

Alisha xoxo

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